Irma Tarlarini - Orpington, Bromley: In Person & Online

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If you're feeling constantly overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally exhausted, I'll support you in a calm environment where you can talk openly, make sense of what you're experiencing, and begin to feel better; physically and mentally. I'll work with you at your pace to rebuild resilience and regain your calm, rhythm & balance.

I support these issues for all adults in Monogamous, ENM, and Polyamorous relationships. Intense emotions such as anger, shame, grief, & confusion are natural & I offer a space where you can speak openly about what has happened, understand the deeper patterns in your relationship, and begin the process of repair. It is possible to rebuild trust, reconnect emotionally & physically, to make insightful decisions about your individual & relationship future.

Family relationships can bring both love and deep emotional pain. Conflicts with parents, siblings, or adult children, as well as experiences of estrangement, can leave you feeling hurt, misunderstood, or isolated. I offer a space for you to talk openly, make sense of your family dynamic, & consider what you need moving forward. We can explore ways of setting boundaries, improving communication, or finding peace, acceptance & healing.

My ethnic culturally mixed background & gender has given me insight into the effects of prejudice, isolation, racism. I'll support you in being different, whether you identify with the BIPOC or the LGBTQ+ community, we find strength in your unique identity & your connection within our diverse world.

As a senior school counsellor, I supported teenagers, unravelling their concerns to enable them to build better relationships with peers, friends, parents, and carers.